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RIGHTS OF PARENTS WHEN A BABY DIES
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• To be given the opportunity to see, hold and touch their baby at any time before and/ or after death within reason.
• To have photographs of their baby taken, and made available to the parents or held in security until the parents wish to see them.
• To be given as many mementoes as possible, e.g., crib card, baby beads, ultrasound and / or other photos, lock of hair, feet and hand prints and record of weight and length.
• To name their child and bond with him or her.
• To observe cultural and religious practices.
• To be cared for by an empathetic staff who will respect their feelings, thoughts, beliefs and individual requests.
• To be with each other throughout hospitalization as much as possible.
• To be given time alone with their baby, allowing for individual needs.
• To request an autopsy. In the case of miscarriage, to request to have or not have an autopsy or pathology exam as determined by applicable law.
• To have information presented in terminology understandable to the parents regarding their baby's status and cause of death, including autopsy and pathology reports and medical records.
• To plan a farewell ritual, burial or cremation in compliance with local state regulations and according to their personal beliefs, religious or cultural tradition.
• To be provided with information on support resources which assist in the healing process, e.g., support groups, counseling, reading material and
prenatal loss newsletters.
RIGHTS OF THE BABY
• To be recognized as a person who was born and died.
• To be named.
• To be seen, touched and held by the family.
• To have life-ending acknowledgment.
• To be put to rest with dignity.
SHARE Pregnancy and Infant Loss Support, Inc.
1. Parents’ Needs and Rights When a Baby Dies, Sr. Jane Marie Lamb, OSF Health Progress,
December 1992 issue.
2. Videos: Footprints on Our Hearts and At A Loss For Words are available through Paraclete Press at 1-800-451-5006.
3. Bittersweet…Hellogoodbye Edited by Sr. Jane Marie Lamb, OSF is available through the
National SHARE Office 1-800-821-6819.
Rights of Parents When a Baby Dies Choices or Mandates
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